Married Swingers

Do you ever wonder why couples are into the swinging lifestyle? It is often because they are free spirits who, although totally in love with each other, just do not believe that exclusiveness adds anything to a relationship. In fact most swingers feel that monogamous relationships are detrimental to long term satisfaction because it can breed dissatisfaction. Swingers are so comfortable in their relationship with their partners that they show their love by not holding their partner back from new sexual experiences. This is basically what swinging is all about, having sexual liaisons rather than romantic encounters with other couples or even individuals. The core relationship for swingers is what gives their lives stability. It is almost a friends with benefits situation, but the core relationship is based on romance. If anything their relationship with other people falls into the friends with benefits category.

Swinging is a personal choice for many partners who often view sex with anybody other than their wife, husband, boyfriend, girlfriend or significant other as a physically stimulating pastime. Some people however get into swinging for the wrong reasons. It could be that their partner is into swinging and they want make them happy by getting into it themselves.  Perhaps their relationship is failing and the excitement has all but vanished; so they adopt swinging hoping to rekindle the fire and passion of their relationship. Getting into swinging for these reason's is not the route you want to take because it usually just leads to a breakup. Successful swinging requires a loving, and not possessive relationship between both partners in the relationship.

Just to hammer the point home, swingers must have a very close and loving relationship to succeed with a swinging lifestyle. Mutual understanding and a strong foundation are vital factors in being a swinger. It is imperative that both partners fully understand why each other wants to be a swinger. One of the main success factors for swinging is a relationship based on strong communication and being open with each other about your feelings. When both partners totally understand where each is coming from, they will realize that swinging can be a very adventurous way of life and that it makes you feel alive. Swinging can appeal to your sexual and recreational needs, including fantasies and desires that you can explore together rather than apart. Swinging is very much about sharing the experience with each other which in turn will strengthen your sexual and emotional growth.

Just remember that it takes two to tango well.
Swinging is, and continues to be, increasingly popular for married and dating couples as well as all religions. Swinging started in the early 50s in the rich suburbs of the United States. At that time swinging was not a common thing and the only way back then to meet other swingers would either be through news paper ads or through other swingers.

Social views have changed drastically through the years and especially since the launch of the Internet. At this time, besides local swinger clubs, you are now able to go online and find dozens of swingers sites to meet new friends. These sites offer you the chance to communicate with and meet other couples like yourselves who are interested in getting together for a fun time. So if you are a swinger or think you are emotionally ready to get into a swinging lifestyle, here is the site for you:

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