Young men are increasingly gravitating to older women when dating. Popular shows like Sex In the City, Weeds and Desperate Housewife's are opening up the eyes of the younger generation males to the delights of dating an older woman. Cougars are happy with this new outcome, because it gives them a much larger pool of young virile dudes to select from. You just gotta love that!
Of course this bed of roses (or is that Rose's) has a few thorns as well. Lets take a look at the advantages and disadvantages
First, the pros (not prostitutes). Older women are more experienced. The main experience that most men are interested in is sexual. However, you will find that these women are just a lot more fun to be around. You can actually have an intelligent conversation with them (as opposed to most women in their early 20's). But for most men, the sexual angle will be the strongest. Women in their 30's and 40's are more interesting to be around, and they are a lot more adventurous in the bedroom. They know what they want, and want what they like!
Secondly, most cougars have an income of their own and usually know how to live inside of it. Most young women are saddled with debt, and as such, them men have to treat them to everything. MILF's may be a bit strained financially, but most of them have learned to budget and look after their money. They might not shower you with it, but they are also unlikely to be a burden.
Lastly, the best thing about dating an older woman is that she will be mature (in theory). A lot of men dislike dating young women because they can be flighty, immature, moody, and given to drama. Older women have been through all that crud, and usually have a much more laid-back look at life and dating. This can be a welcome change after dating high-maintenance young women.
However, there are cons to dating older women that must also be factored in. An older woman usually has a less firm and toned body than a young lady. Gravity works hard to sag both men and women as they grow older, and this can definitely hurt some key erogenous zones on a MILF. However, finding a cougar who is into nutrition and yoga and hitting they gym is getting easier these days. In fact, organic groceries, yoga studios, and gyms are great places to meet MILFs.
Second, a MILF can be more bossy and/or controlling than a young woman. She may slide into a “motherly” role with a young man, and expect to have a lot of the control in their relationship. This can be dealt with by having open and honest communication, though, and is easily remedied.
All in all, in most cases, I feel like age is just a number. As long as the participants are legal, it doesn’t matter what the age is, provided the goal is an honest, caring relationship.
YE HA! Go git em!
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